No News

Still no news about my husbands lump. I did not think it would take this long to hear about it. I know very thing happens in gods time. I am still only human and can not stand the wait. We did find out that he does need surgery again. He has gallstones and they want to remove his gallbladder. Gallstones are found in many people with gallbladder cancer. I was unaware of this until now. We have been so worried about the lump that goes from his chest down to the bottom of his rib cage. We don't know what that is, but now we know that this can lead to cancer. It is a lot to take in all at once. The news about this; no news about his lump; no news about my dads cancer; and my husbands new job he just got. We still have to function every day and go through life. The kids do not stop just cause we are waiting for news about someone or something. My lil guy woke up this morning with a fever. As you can imagine my four year old is cranky and tired from it. He has to be held and nothing seems to please him. He wants to watch a movie but can not have the sound on at all. I don't blame him light and sound bother me when I am sick why should it be any different for him. My nine year old brought his progress report home he has went up in all subjects, two have stayed the same. I am so proud of his achivement I know it is not easy to hold good grades all of the time. We got the school pictures in today when did they get so expensive? $12.00 a sheet and $45.00 for the pack of five sheets. When you have three kids in school that is a lot of money. I understand they need to make their money as well but that is a lot still. Their are about 20 kids in a class if each kid buys one sheet that is $240.00 per class. I know not every kid will buy one sheet some will have none others will hav all. So if you average it out their are 14 different classes $3360.00 is a lot of money for four hours of work.

Out of school for a week

The kids have been out of school two days going on their third. I have been lucky no real drama knock on wood. My husband has work he did not have the time off. It has been nice just to relax and not due to much. My two little one have homework every day even though they are off. They have handled it very well no arguing about doing it now that was a surprise. We still have not got a call about the biopsy. It is so hard to sit here and wait to see what the mass is that my husband has. They can not tell us if it is cancer or not with out it. As for my father we still have not heard about the test results to see if the cancer has come back or not. I saw my dad Mon. night and he looked good. My son (second to youngest) has got to go to the dentist he has a cavity. Other wise I think everyone is in good health.

Valentine's

It is almost 3 A.M. and I am still baking cookies for my husband when he wakes up. I go him a huge balloon with some small ones with it. Roses 12 yellow to show our friendship surrounding one red to show my love for him. I made some chocolate hearts and carmel/chocolate hearts to sit around the base of the flower vase. Last but not least I made him a cake to go with it. It will be the first thing he sees when he wakes up seance it is on the dresser next to the bed. All I can say is happy Valentines Day baby!!! I hope he likes it will have to wait to see. As for our five boys I made them their own cake.

The day before Valentine's our dinner

Well my husband came home early from a coaching clinic, that was a nice surprise. Today he took me out for dinner the food was good. A nice change from our anniversary dinner. It did not start off to good as we were being lead through the restaurant the bus boy. That is what I think his job is anyways. Had a rubber neck watching my butt as I walk by to our booth. Mind you the waitress was in front of my and my husband fallowing behind me. Needless to say my husband let the lady setting us know and the waitress came over and heard about it. The waitress came back to the table and said it was a misunderstanding. How can someone with a rubber neck fallowing your butt walk by a misunderstanding. Then she came back for a second time and told us that the owner knows and will take care of it. By now my appetite has just about gone from me when we see four different employees walk by four and five times that alone will make anyone uncomfortable. When their is only one other family sitting their. When we got our dinner and we finished my husband asked for the owners card the waitress came back with the owner instead of the card we then went through it all again and let him know that is not the way to run a business etc. In my opinion if he valued his place of business he should have came to address his customers when he found out not wait for the customer to ask for a card. I know now not to attend cool lukes. After dinner we did some shopping and came home. What a night to have but all of my boys had fun while we were gone that is a plus.


P.S.
My husband went to the doc. will have to go and have a biopsy done to see if it is cancer or not they are not sure yet and can not give an opinion. We do know their was white spots in the mass. Starting from the upper chest to the lower rib cage.

Valentine's Party at school

Well just got done with the valentine's party at school. Two boys with party's I attend and help with is a lot. The youngest boy got plenty of candy. My husband is on his way to a football clinic hope he has fun this weekend. He has another clinic coming up that he has to attend with his boss. My dad went in for some more test again and a colonoscopy will know the results in a few days. My husband has not been feeling well he had to go to the doctor to find out why his side is hurting and has a lump. All of my boys have a week off of school and my husband has to work the whole week. That's not to fun but it has to done. We will have to do something fun for them to get out of the house. Today is nice and sunny the first time in a while. I do love the sun so much.

A nice drive

Well I was taken out for a drive today put over 200 miles on the truck. It was nice to be out and about. I got to go out to eat for brunch very good food. We stopped by the store on the way home to fill some of our shopping list. I went into the kids school and talked with their teachers. Everyone is doing good still on track for this year. Dropped of some of the candy for their party next week; that will be here before I know it. Just got done being sick could hardly get out of bed for 5 days. That was no fun at all, hope I don't have to due that again anytime soon.